“Do We Need Marriage Counseling?” – An extremely common question.
All relationships have ups and downs, and it’s hard to know the difference between a passing rough patch or a more serious situation that isn’t going to change on it’s own.
Often times, we don’t go into a relationship with the tools to manage the challenges, which is where the pros come in. And by pros – A marriage counselor who can help you learn new ways of relating to your partner.
At Mind Ocean Wellness we specialize in relationships, and know how to help you “tend the garden” of joyful partnership,.Whether we’re working with you in Marriage Counseling or Couples Therapy to repair your bond our approach is positive and effective.
One of the esteemed marriage counselors in Pune we can teach you how to turn your conflict into connection, create a positive new chapter in your marriage, and take your relationship to the next level of strength and intimacy.
But how do you figure out “When do you need marriage counselling”. Here are some trigger points and behaviors that are signs you may need help.
Communication has become negative. Negative communication can include anything that leaves one partner feeling depressed, insecure, disregarded, or wanting to withdraw from the conversation. This can also include the tone of the conversation. It is important to remember that it’s not always what you say, but how you say it.
When the couple seems to be “just occupying the same space.” When couples become more like roommates than a married couple, this may indicate a need for counseling. If there is a lack of communication, conversation and intimacy or any other elements the couple feels are important and they feel they just “co-exist,” this may be an indication that a marriage counsellor can help sort out what is missing and how to get it back.
When the partners do not know how to resolve their differences. When a couple begins to experience discord and they are aware of the discord, knowing is only half the battle. This is a perfect time to get a third party involved. I
When one partner begins to act out on negative feelings. Negative feelings such as resentment or disappointment can turn into hurtful, sometimes harmful behaviors. A marriage counsellor can help the couple sort out negative feelings and find better ways to express them.
When the only resolution appears to be separation. Spending time away from home does not usually resolve the situation. Instead, it reinforces the thought that time away is helpful, often leading to more absences.
When a couple is staying together for the sake of the children. If a couple feels it is wise to stay together for the sake of the children, it may help to involve an objective third party. Often couples believe that they are doing the right thing when staying together actually is detrimental to the children. On the contrary, if the couple is able to resolve issue and move toward a positive, healthy relationship, this may be the best decision for all involved.
Get your relationship back on track today. At Mind Ocean wellness our marriage counselors will help you grow back together again.